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Perspectives on Mentoring

 

Welcome to our bi-monthly blog where members of the WISE Within community share insights and their WISE Within experience.


 

July 1, 2011

Mentoring Instills Confidence and Empowerment


Mentoring, mentorship and mentee are words tinged with ambiguity that often invokes negatives feelings. Generally, someone has to convince you to participate and even then, there are no guideposts to lead the way. I wasn’t sure what to expect from the WISE Within mentor program. I knew that my career was at a crossroads and needed some guidance, but wasn’t sure how the program would engage and enrich my professional experience. After speaking with several people, I decided to apply, and it was one of the best and most empowering decisions I’ve made.

I was partnered with a mentor who had just started a new job, so I was immediately concerned. Would she have enough time for me? Would we be able to meet the number of times required? Initially, we tried to set up meetings that didn’t work out for either one of us; however, once we finally did meet it was truly life changing. She and I hit it off immediately. We had so much in common, even down to our “colorful” language.

After our first meeting, I faced a challenge in my professional life: It was the beginning of review season and I was having a few issues with an employee. Never encountering this before, I was unsure of what to do. I knew I had another meeting set up with my mentor, so I chose to discuss the situation with her. She spent over two hours making a plan about how to manage the situation. She was so amazing and empowering. I walked away from that meeting not only with a fully flushed-out game plan, but also with the confidence to implement it. I would not have been able to implement and execute what was necessary to get this troubled employee back on track without the guidance of my senior executive mentor.

I am so grateful for her. I know our relationship won’t end because the program is over. My mentor is outstanding and I am so happy I took the time to fill out the “lengthy” application.